{"id":15623,"date":"2015-03-05T09:17:51","date_gmt":"2015-03-05T07:17:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/?p=15623"},"modified":"2015-09-07T21:17:37","modified_gmt":"2015-09-07T18:17:37","slug":"ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/2015\/03\/05\/ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce-ar fi sa&#8230; ne bucuram ca suntem femei?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fara legatura cu &#8222;martie, luna femeii&#8221;, am observat in ultima perioada o groaza de discutii infierbantate &#8211; online si offline &#8211; despre feminism, drepturile femeilor, felul in care reusitele femeilor sunt prezentate in media samd. Am sa va scutesc de propriul-meu discurs, dar ma folosesc de prilej pentru a invita sa va ganditi serios la cat de multe libertati, drepturi, oportunitati luam drept &#8222;bune&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Stiati ca&#8230;?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"15626\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/2015\/03\/05\/ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei\/vernis-khaki\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"500,641\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"vernis-khaki\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki-234x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15626\" src=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki.jpg\" alt=\"vernis-khaki\" width=\"485\" height=\"622\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/vernis-khaki-234x300.jpg 234w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; <em>exista 3 tari in care femeile inca nu au drept de vot (Arabia Saudita, Brunei si Omen)?<\/em><br \/>\n&#8211; iar in alte tari, acesta a fost acordat mult mai recent decat ati crede, surprinzator: Kazahstan in 1994, Irak in 1980, Namibia in 1989, Elvetia in 1971&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nu stiu in ce fel va bucurati voi de<em><strong> statutul, darul si datul vostru de femeie<\/strong><\/em>, dar imi imaginez ca implica o chestiune de echilibru, responsabilitate, cultivare si, asa cum am descoperit de curand intr-un film (&#8222;Wild&#8221;, vi-l recomand din toata inima!), din <strong><em>a ne &#8222;pune in calea frumusetii&#8221;<\/em><\/strong>&#8230; Cu pasi marunti dar zilnici, bucuria si mandria de a fi femeie ar putea insemna:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"15627\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/2015\/03\/05\/ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei\/attachment\/4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"480,672\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"4\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566-214x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15627 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566.jpg\" alt=\"4\" width=\"480\" height=\"672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566.jpg 480w, https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/4-e1425539794566-214x300.jpg 214w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>1. <em><strong>Sa purtam cat mai des fuste si rochii<\/strong><\/em>, abandonandu-ne cochetariei si feminitatii. Sa le purtam cu naturalete, stiind ca acasa ne asteapta o pereche de jeansi care ne vin perfect, dar pe care ii pastram pentru la iarna. e un semn de feminitate.<\/p>\n<p>2. <strong><em>Sa ridicam stachetele si standardele<\/em><\/strong>. Zilnic, sa ne imaginam cum ar fi, cum s-ar comporta, ce si-ar dori varianta noastra la superlativ. Sa ne lasam mai putin influentate de parerile, criticile si santajurile emotionante ale celorlalti.<\/p>\n<p>3. <strong><em>Sa fim un model pentru generatia mai tanara<\/em><\/strong>, pentru fetite si adolescente. Fie ca suntem mame, matusi, verisoare sau bunici, sa le demonstram prin felul in care ne conducem propria viata ca ele vor fi creatoarele propriei lor vieti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"15624\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/2015\/03\/05\/ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"357,233\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400-300x196.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15624\" src=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"485\" height=\"316\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400.jpg 357w, https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_lisv4riklo1qz6pnoo1_400-300x196.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>4. <strong><em>Sa ne exersam si dezvoltam mintea, sa ne luam angajamente serioase fata de noi insine si sa finalizam ce ne-am promis.<\/em><\/strong> Sa continuam mereu sa invatam lucruri noi &#8211; fie ca vorbim de un curs de yoga, a citi mai multe carti, a ne re-specializa profesional sau a incepe un business pe cont propriu. Educatia este acel &#8222;ceva&#8221; care nu vi-l poate lua nimeni.<\/p>\n<p>5. <strong><em>Sa ne rasfatam, pentru ca meritam.<\/em> <\/strong>Sa ne machiem si sa avem grija de aspectul nostru, dar fiind mereu constiente ca suntem mai mult decat un simplu &#8222;ambalaj&#8221;. Insa atunci cand ne simtim frumoase, radiem frumusete&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"15625\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/2015\/03\/05\/ce-ar-fi-sa-ne-bucuram-ca-suntem-femei\/tumblr_luo7d4xgix1qbr8r3o1_500\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"500,678\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500-221x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-15625\" src=\"http:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"678\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.stylediary.ro\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/tumblr_luo7d4xgIx1qbr8r3o1_500-221x300.jpg 221w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Ma opresc one moment longer la acest punct #5 pentru o invitatie &#8222;cu intentie&#8221;: pana in 8 martie, in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.baneasashoppingcity.ro\" target=\"_blank\">Baneasa Shopping City<\/a> va puteti lasa rasfatate si infrumusetate intr-un foarte fain si profesionist <strong><em>Styling Corner<\/em><\/strong>, unde vi se ofera sedinte de machiaj, stilizare de sprancene, coafat si infrumusetare (de la Evidence Beauty Salon, Flormar, L\u2019Occitane, Marionnaud, Sephora, Sensiblu, Yves Rocher, Patio, MAC, INGLOT, Geta Voinea Hair &amp; Beauty Salon, Melkior si Anastasia Beverly Hills). Pentru cele cu spirit rebel s-a creat un salon de tatuaje temporare (care pe mine ma tenteaza cu adevarat, am pe to-do list doua tatuaje!), iar domnii pot primi consiliere stilistica din partea stilistilor BSC. Fara legatura cu frumusetea exterioara dar in legatura cu cea interioara, tot in seara de 8 martie, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/BaneasaShoppingCity\" target=\"_blank\">Baneasa<\/a>, <em>Brio Sonores<\/em> &#8211; grupul de tenori castigatori la &#8222;Romanii au talent&#8221; &#8211; promite un concert cu adevarat spectaculos!<\/p>\n<p>Revenind, as mai trece pe listele noastre&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>6. <strong><em>Sa nu ne victimizam<\/em><\/strong>. Sa fim regizoarele si eroinele filmului vietii noastre. Nimanui nu-i plac oamenii care isi plang de mila.<\/p>\n<p>7. S<strong><em>a fim manierate, elegante si politicoase.<\/em> <\/strong>Si, cu riscul de a suna arogant, sa ne ridicam astfel deasupra celor carora manierele le lipsesc.<\/p>\n<p>8. <strong><em>Sa fim independente financiar, pentru ca putem<\/em><\/strong>. Una dintre cele doua probleme care creaza disensiuni intr-un cuplu sunt banii, iar a avea un venit constant, pe care sa te bazezi, face orice femeie sa se simta &#8222;in control&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>9. S<em><strong>a avem grija de cineva si sa &#8222;cultivam&#8221; ceva<\/strong><\/em> &#8211; copii, partenerul, animale de companie, propriile vise, noi insine. Afectiunea si sentimentul de grija sunt proprii naturii feminine, dar nu inseamna ca le vom exprima la fel. Indiferent ce ati alege, faceti-o cu drag, din inima, fara jena si mai ales, nu din obligatie.<\/p>\n<p>10. <strong><em>Sa respectam toate celelalte femei.<\/em><\/strong> Pe unele nu le agreem, pe altele nu le intelegem. ASta conteaza prea putin: ideea e sa nu dispretuim, ridiculizam, criticam alte femei. Fiti bune si cu bun simt. Creati-va propriile reguli de viata si priviti celelelalte femei cu intelegere, habar nu aveti cum este viata lor in realitate.<\/p>\n<p>Am sentimentul ca lista asta ar putea curge la nesfarsit si sunt curioasa ce ati adauga voi: in ce fel simtiti si\u00a0va bucurati ca sunteti femei?<\/p>\n<p>Fotografii: pinterest.com<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Inscrie-te la <a href=\"https:\/\/my.sendinblue.com\/users\/subscribe\/js_id\/21lk8\/id\/1\" target=\"_blank\">newsletterul <\/a>nostru si vei fi prima care primeste idei de tinute si recomandari de shopping, afla despre concursurile cu premii si citeste articolele de pe Style Diary!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fara legatura cu &#8222;martie, luna femeii&#8221;, am observat in ultima perioada o groaza de discutii infierbantate &#8211; online si offline &#8211; despre feminism, drepturile femeilor, felul in care reusitele femeilor sunt prezentate in media samd. 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